Marc Chevalier
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Let me give you an example of what I consider balanced behavior.
In Chile, construction workers high up in the buildings (never the ones at street level, for some reason) like to whistle and say things to women passing by. They're not picky -- the woman in question doesn't have to be goddesses, or even particularly youthful. And most importantly, the things the workers say AREN'T dirty or degrading. So, what do they say? "Piropos." Piropos are lightly flirtatious plays-on-words. Two examples:
-- "Did I just fall from my scaffold? Because I swear I'm seeing an angel!"
-- "I need my sunglasses! A ray of sunshine just walked by."
Chilean women don't feel threatened because the men are high up in the building, not next to them on the street. Neither can see the other very well, in any case. And who couldn't help but smile at little comments like the ones above?
Every Chilean women I ever met has enjoyed the "piropos". Most feel disappointed if they walk by a construction site and receive none. In fact, they resolve to wear a nicer outfit next time! lol
In Chile, construction workers high up in the buildings (never the ones at street level, for some reason) like to whistle and say things to women passing by. They're not picky -- the woman in question doesn't have to be goddesses, or even particularly youthful. And most importantly, the things the workers say AREN'T dirty or degrading. So, what do they say? "Piropos." Piropos are lightly flirtatious plays-on-words. Two examples:
-- "Did I just fall from my scaffold? Because I swear I'm seeing an angel!"
-- "I need my sunglasses! A ray of sunshine just walked by."
Chilean women don't feel threatened because the men are high up in the building, not next to them on the street. Neither can see the other very well, in any case. And who couldn't help but smile at little comments like the ones above?
Every Chilean women I ever met has enjoyed the "piropos". Most feel disappointed if they walk by a construction site and receive none. In fact, they resolve to wear a nicer outfit next time! lol