LADIES of the LOUNGE

[$ally]

You're pretty amazing your own self, doll. You know we love you.

You are the sweetest thing. I feel all warm and fuzzy inside
I love all the pix from the luncheon I missed. You gals are too cute for words. Are there more?

 

[Miss Brill]

Double "WOW!" Ms. Sally, if it weren't for you being unavailable, and me being fairly close to your own kids' age...

You don't flirt by telling a woman you are young enough to be her son. Women don't want to hear that. If a woman dates men young enough to be her son, she knows it, and let me tell you, she is not thinking of the men as being her son, or even her son's age, so don't mention it, unless you want to make her feel old & not feel sexy towards you. [huh]

 

[Miss Brill]

Mrs. Lovett err Pink Dahlia & VivianRegan:

Awww! I love this one! :eusa_clap

 

[Big Man]

You don't flirt by telling a woman you are young enough to be her son. Women don't want to hear that. If a woman dates men young enough to be her son, she knows it, and let me tell you, she is not thinking of the men as being her son, or even her son's age, so don't mention it, unless you want to make her feel old & not feel sexy towards you. [huh]

Ouch !

 

[Pink Dahlia]

Dear Miss Brill, Diamondback, Locktown & Lucky,

Thanks so much for the sweet words. You got a girl blushing over here!

 

[Diamondback]

@Pinky: just calling it as I see it.

@Miss Brill:It was meant as a compliment--there are times when I keep forgetting that even though some parts of me are less developed than a teenager, I'm not one of those anymore...

 

[Johnnysan]

We had our AZ Ladies Lunch yesterday (which was a BLAST as always) and Miss Pink Dahlia took this of me. Gotta love the New Look!

What a cute outfit...you look terrific!

 

[Johnnysan]

Dare I say...smitten? :whistling

 

[Miss Brill]

Ouch !

No, not ouch. Just constructive criticism about mentioning a woman's age. Women want to feel sexy, not old enough to be someone's mother. [huh]

 

[Miss Brill]

Dear Miss Brill, Diamondback, Locktown & Lucky,

Thanks so much for the sweet words. You got a girl blushing over here!

You had an avatar awhile back & you had glasses on in it, and that was a great picture too. Your glasses are very flattering to you, I can never find a pair that are wide enough to fit me.

 

[$ally]

No, not ouch. Just constructive criticism about mentioning a woman's age. Women want to feel sexy, not old enough to be someone's mother.

lol Especially since I'm NOT old enough to be his mother -- double whammy! Anyway, a comment like "You don't look so bad for your age and weight", even if meant to be a compliment, is an insult. Just a heads up folks
I did understand what you were trying to say, however, DB. Your heart's in the right place.
Thank you Lockdown Dog and Johnnysan!

 

[Miss Brill]

lol Especially since I'm NOT old enough to be his mother -- double whammy! Anyway, a comment like "You don't look so bad for your age and weight", even if meant to be a compliment, is an insult.

Ack! I get that too! It is awful! lol "You don't look that old..." Gee, thanks.

 

[$ally]

Ack! I get that too! It is awful! lol "You don't look that old..." Gee, thanks.

lol Although it's never been shot to me that directly, that's basically what is being said.

 

[Miss Brill]

lol Although it's never been shot to me that directly, that's basically what is being said.

I've been getting the "look that old" comment for years. When you are 21 and people think you "don't look that old" it is one thing, but at 35? :eusa_doh:

You know what is bugging me now? People talking about Nicole Kidman having to have had a facelift, because she looks too young, and then seeing she is 5 years older than me. Jeez, what do people think a 40 y/o is? 100? No one believes she hasn't had a ton of work done, but people don't age like they did.

 

[Mid-fogey]

From...

...my perspective you are all yummy.

 

[Diamondback]

Either way, Ms. Sally, my apologies. I still have a lot to learn...

 

[sophia la shok]

my man and i, post-resturaunt, yesterday. after he'd rubbed off the big red lipstick mark from his cheek. hee hee.

 

[$ally]

Either way, Ms. Sally, my apologies. I still have a lot to learn...

No apology needed, you just wanted me to feel good about my appearance and that is kind.

 

[LocktownDog]

my man and i, post-resturaunt, yesterday. after he'd rubbed off the big red lipstick mark from his cheek. hee hee.

Lucky man, that one.

Richard

 

[carter]

I've been getting the "look that old" comment for years. When you are 21 and people think you "don't look that old" it is one thing, but at 35? :eusa_doh:
You know what is bugging me now? People talking about Nicole Kidman having to have had a facelift, because she looks too young, and then seeing she is 5 years older than me. Jeez, what do people think a 40 y/o is? 100? No one believes she hasn't had a ton of work done, but people don't age like they did.

From my vintage point, the Ladies of the Lounge have nothing to fear from getting older. A true lady is lovely throughout her lifetime.