A good friend's husband had a midlife crisis and decided he wanted to quite his high-paying hospital admin job and go to grad school. He kept telling her it would be fun to live like poor college students, that they would just cut back on the extras (like health insurance). She couldn't convince him that a)it was irresponsible to quit a job when you have kids and b) living like poor college kids was never fun. The big difference was that his parents had paid for his undergrad, apartment all his bills while he was in school, while she had worked 2 jobs to afford college and had lived on rice and beans for 4 years. Needless to say, they are no longer together.Exactly. When you're poor, you know what it is to survive on crackers and milk, and feel lucky to have that much. You know what it is to have to decide whether to buy food or pay the oil bill because you can't afford both. There's nothing trendy or hip or exciting about that.