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Do I hear the jangle of bartender keys?
reetpleat said:I guess I differ from many members here....While I love many aspects about the past, I dhave no use for many of the cultural norms of the era.
reetpleat said:while I think for younger girls, having sex or physical intimacy is not always a good thing because they are often doing it to get intimacy and relationship, so they end up getting hurt. Older men and women are more straightforward and honest about it. I hope. So I think younger girls should be cautioned against hooking up for the wrong reasons.
reetpleat said:As far as dating, I would never expect to impress a woman by taking her out to dinner or a movie. If I ever actually have a regular date again, it will be doing something a little more exciting thatn that.
reetpleat said:On a last note, we should be careful not to confuse the movies with reality. I suspect there wa a lot more of what we consider modern behavior going on. The movies never have been reality.
Besides, as mentioned, the true hearthrobs of the era usually ended up with a girl in their arms without the whole dating thing.
beaucaillou said:This is where I always get called "old-fashioned."
Lady Day said:I think this younger girl trend of 'hooking up' or 'party girl' is an extention of a warped since of equality. Men have been doing this for a long time, now i can too. What I dont get is equating this new since of 'equality' by an old mens standard. Whay cant a new equal tone be set by the young women of today? If you have a desire to go out and 'hook up', fine, but to do it (as I know some girls do, cause they are friends) because of the 'men do it Im going to do it to, record, is well just sheepish.
Lady Day said:...Men have been doing this for a long time, now i can too.
herringbonekid said:if men were the only ones doing it, who were they doing it with ?
Posted by LadyDay:
Themselves, sometimes
Baron Kurtz said:Is there anything wrong with that? Just because one wouldn't do what someone else does, doesn't make it inherently wrong.*
Baron Kurtz said:Is there anything wrong with that? Just because one wouldn't do what someone else does, doesn't make it inherently wrong.
I'm tired of men (boys is probably a more accurate description)
herringbonekid said:if you can't see that young girls engaging in loveless sex with numerous equally uninterested males is in some way damaging then you're being too generous.
scotrace said:Just to clarify:
I'd try dating the old fashioned way. Call for a date, set the time, pick her up with maybe a small gift, dressed nicely, dinner, conversation, maybe a little window shopping. Then take her home and hope to get permission to call again (if all went well).
My question is, how would that be received? Would I be written off as a hopeless dullard? Or - worse! - as "too nice!"