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Fair enough, if we are discussing age, I am 19. 4th time around.If we are going to pretend to be discussing age, we need to stop being coy, and stop dancing around a number.
I am 88.42 years old.
Fair enough, if we are discussing age, I am 19. 4th time around.If we are going to pretend to be discussing age, we need to stop being coy, and stop dancing around a number.
I am 88.42 years old.
The dewy-eyed bride and I have “paid off” mortgages only when we refi’ed (not to take out any equity, but to get a better interest rate), but that just means we acquired a new mortgage, so as a practical matter we didn’t really retire a debt; or when we sold a property and had to pay off the outstanding principal.I've always considered "home ownership" a pleasant fiction we tell ourselves in order to lessen the pain of knowing that the bank could and would kick us out on the street at will should we ever default on the payments. I own my house, but I don't expect that I will ever "own" it. My mother bought the house I grew up in fifty-five years ago, but she still doesn't *own* it, not with the subsequent mortgages she's had to take out over the years to head off for just a little bit longer its inevitable collapse into a heap of rotted scrap. My own first mortgage won't be paid off until I'm 84 years old, and I don't expect to live that long.
I remember turning 40 (over twenty years ago) and sitting myself down and asking myself if I had attained all that I wanted. It was a fairly brutal session. In some areas I was, meh, doing okay. In others, I was clearly behind the curve. I tried to objectively identify what I was doing right, and what I was doing wrong. Eventually, I got there, more or less. The bad news is that my relative success in the following 20 years was, in equal parts, due to pig-headed persistence and also due to a great degree of blind luck. On the other hand, I suppose there is some truth to the idea that you make your own luck. My advice? (Hey, I’m a senior. Can’t I give unsolicited advice?). Know what you want, more or less; be realistic and don’t expect too much; be humble; work hard; find a mentor who will be on your side. Don’t be afraid to take a calculated risk. Be dependable: 90% is showing up on time and doing your best. Support those who work under you.Getting 38 in August
That will change.I still can loose weight same easily as always.
That will change.
The bad news is that my relative success in the following 20 years was, in equal parts, due to pig-headed persistence and also due to a great degree of blind luck. On the other hand, I suppose there is some truth to the idea that you make your own luck. My advice? (Hey, I’m a senior. Can’t I give unsolicited advice?). Know what you want, more or less; be realistic and don’t expect too much; be humble; work hard; find a mentor who will be on your side. Don’t be afraid to take a calculated risk. Be dependable: 90% is showing up on time and doing your best. Support those who work under you.
Sheesh. Is that all I’ve got after a whole career of work? I hope it is taken as it is intended. Good luck, young man!
My parents bought their first house in 1941 …… they paid $3900.When a house that you bought 40 years ago is about the same price as a new car is today.
The main thing I remember about turning 40 was that it was, I felt, the appropriate time to have "the talk" with my wife. No, not that talk, the one about how to not have children. She was born into a large Italian family, many of whom still reside in northern Illinois. As such, we weren't married a week before she asked me when we could start our own family. 20 years later we still had no children, so "the talk" consisted of me telling her that I thought our advancing ages were making it more and more unlikely that we would have children of our own, that I thought it was too late for us to "get in the game" anyway, and that I thought it would be a good idea to take steps towards making sure it wouldn't happen. She semi-reluctantly agreed, so I took one for the team and got "fixed" (it's considerably easier for men). Yeah, happy birthday to me.I remember turning 40 (over twenty years ago) and sitting myself down and asking myself if I had attained all that I wanted...
For me it was in my mid-40s. Now that I'm creeping up on my 61st birthday, I can't read anything in small print without "reading" glasses.Sure, but probably not until then, when the bifocal glasses will come along.?![]()
Forty? I've been firing blanks since I was twenty-two!The main thing I remember about turning 40 was that it was, I felt, the appropriate time to have "the talk" with my wife. No, not that talk, the one about how to not have children. She was born into a large Italian family, many of whom still reside in northern Illinois. As such, we weren't married a week before she asked me when we could start our own family. 20 years later we still had no children, so "the talk" consisted of me telling her that I thought our advancing ages were making it more and more unlikely that we would have children of our own, that I thought it was too late for us to "get in the game" anyway, and that I thought it would be a good idea to take steps towards making sure it wouldn't happen. She semi-reluctantly agreed, so I took one for the team and got "fixed" (it's considerably easier for men). Yeah, happy birthday to me.![]()
Well, that was a score. My parents in 1949 paid $9500, 30 year mortgage at 5 1/2% both term & amortization. My father paid it off in 8 years working a second job as he could not abide being that much in debt.^^^^^
I hesitate to say this because people tend not to believe it, but here goes .,,
My brother, who died in 2007, bought his 1908-built house in 1975 for $2,051. His daughter sold it a couple years ago for nearly $800K.
When he bought the place the Seattle economy was in the gutter. HUD had several properties in default. The conditions for bidding included a commitment to owner occupancy for, as I recall, at least five years.
45. Or you can do like me, and have two different prescriptions, one of which you are constantly misplacing.Sure, but probably not until then, when the bifocal glasses will come along.?![]()
For me it was in my mid-40s. Now that I'm creeping up on my 61st birthday, I can't read anything in small print without "reading" glasses.![]()