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I think we would all agree that the only thing a person's attire tells us for certain about that person is that he happens to be wearing certain attire. Whatever else we might infer from that may tell us more about ourselves than about the person whose clothing we're assessing.
Still, clothing is a choice, and it will "say" something about its wearer. The issue, it seems, is whether what is says is what the wearer meant for it to say. Or not.
To return to the OP's question ... If a person doesn't wish to appear costumed, then he has to concern himself with how others are likely to perceive his choice of clothing. A few folks here have made the point that where the line between "normal" (okay, so there's gotta be a better word) attire and costume is drawn depends very much on context and the attitude projected by the wearer.
Rare is the person, no matter how experienced and worldly and seemingly self-secure, who isn't at least somewhat concerned with the image he projects. (And that's a good thing, I'd argue, seeing how without a certain level of conformity we just couldn't live together. Just where that "certain level" is has always been debatable.) Our very presence on this forum is a sign that we care about such matters, perhaps more than most. This is not to say that we're inordinately seeking of approval or that we look down on those less interested with such things, but only that we notice.
Still, clothing is a choice, and it will "say" something about its wearer. The issue, it seems, is whether what is says is what the wearer meant for it to say. Or not.
To return to the OP's question ... If a person doesn't wish to appear costumed, then he has to concern himself with how others are likely to perceive his choice of clothing. A few folks here have made the point that where the line between "normal" (okay, so there's gotta be a better word) attire and costume is drawn depends very much on context and the attitude projected by the wearer.
Rare is the person, no matter how experienced and worldly and seemingly self-secure, who isn't at least somewhat concerned with the image he projects. (And that's a good thing, I'd argue, seeing how without a certain level of conformity we just couldn't live together. Just where that "certain level" is has always been debatable.) Our very presence on this forum is a sign that we care about such matters, perhaps more than most. This is not to say that we're inordinately seeking of approval or that we look down on those less interested with such things, but only that we notice.