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It's not just women. I lurked for a couple years before I had the courage to join in.
It took me about a year. Every time I looked something up, the FL was always the first on the list.
New places full of knowledgeable people can certainly be intimidating. But folks here were so warm, right from the (my) beginning, that it didn't take long to feel comfortable.
I have to say that for the most part they were. I was never part of a forum before, so the whole thing was new to me and I think that's part of the reason I was shy to join in at first.