Like everywhere else on the internet you can't be too thin skinned around here. I feel like most folks are of a similar mind though and it's a pretty decent place to be as the internet goes.
I’m not sure what “lifestyle“ requirement is being referred to above but I’ve worked on multigenerational ranches in Idaho, Wyoming, and Montana and I don’t recall ever seeing an OR on a buckeroo, wrangler, foreman, owner, or cook for that matter. My best friend is a national champion rodeo cowboy and I’ve competed myself and again there are no ORs to be found in those circles.
Don’t get me wrong, ORs are great (I have several and wore a modern OR to dinner on Saturday) but having someone tell you that you need to be a real cattleman/cowboy to wear one is not consistent with my experience.
You wear your OR quite well and you certainly would fit in nicely in these parts of the country whether you are a cowboy or not.
Bill