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Mom's basement is not a place, it's a state of mind.
Otherwise known as "The Land of Lost Boys."
Mom's basement is not a place, it's a state of mind.
Otherwise known as "The Land of Lost Boys."
I bet there were more adult children living at home back in the day than there are today. Staying at home until marriage was quite common and finding a mate could sometimes take a while. It was also not uncommon to have multi-generational households, from grandparents to grandchildren. I know of a family that at one time had four generations under one roof, mind you they had something like forty rooms under that roof.I think that part of this decline is due to the fact that so many "children" never move out of their parents' house...
I know of a family that at one time had four generations under one roof, mind you they had something like forty rooms under that roof.
For the most part (as what you say is true) the worst part about the ordeal (for those that are there) is, the don't take the elevator, out! They stay on the (to the elevator operator, speaking relatively meek in demeanor), "bottom floor, please"!Mom's basement is not a place, it's a state of mind.
That was the TV show Dallas
Sounds to me, they were in line to use the bathroom!Don't forget the ladies! As my brother-in-law said about his older sister (the one that's not my wife): "First one in (the world), last one out (of the house)!" It may have even qualified as an awkward moment had we all not roared with laughter.
That was the TV show Dallas
I bet there were more adult children living at home back in the day than there are today. Staying at home until marriage was quite common and finding a mate could sometimes take a while. It was also not uncommon to have multi-generational households, from grandparents to grandchildren. I know of a family that at
one time had four generations under one roof, mind you they had something like forty rooms under that roof.
I bet there were more adult children living at home back in the day than there are today. Staying at home until marriage was quite common and finding a mate could sometimes take a while. It was also not uncommon to have multi-generational households, from grandparents to grandchildren. I know of a family that at one time had four generations under one roof, mind you they had something like forty rooms under that roof.
And it's still that way in most of the world. In Chile, kids go to university, become doctors and lawyers ... and still live with their parents until they get married. Why? Because university educations there are so expensive to pay off (and scholarships and grants are practically nonexistent). If you're Chilean and not rich, you can't afford to pay your student loans and pay rent on an apartment, let alone buy a home ... so young professionals continue to live with mom and dad until the loans are paid off.
Does that make these young adults slackers?
I bet there were more adult children living at home back in the day than there are today. Staying at home until marriage was quite common and finding a mate could sometimes take a while. It was also not uncommon to have multi-generational households, from grandparents to grandchildren. I know of a family that at one time had four generations under one roof, mind you they had something like forty rooms under that roof.
And it's still that way in most of the world. In Chile, kids go to university, become doctors and lawyers ... and still live with their parents until they get married. Why? Because university educations there are so expensive to pay off (and scholarships and grants are practically nonexistent). If you're Chilean and not rich, you can't afford to pay your student loans and pay rent on an apartment, let alone buy a home ... so young professionals continue to live with mom and dad until the loans are paid off.
And it's still that way in most of the world. In Chile, kids go to university, become doctors and lawyers ... and still live with their parents until they get married. Why? Because university educations there are so expensive to pay off (and scholarships and grants are practically nonexistent). If you're Chilean and not rich, you can't afford to pay your student loans and pay rent on an apartment, let alone buy a home ... so young professionals continue to live with mom and dad until the loans are paid off.
Does that make these young adults slackers?
Whatever happened to "working one's way through college"? The plight of the "poor student"? There are successful, practicing doctors who still haven't paid their medical school bills and it's not because they can't afford to do so.
I work with foreign students, many of whom apply for and receive financial aid...
...if these students can make the trek out of desperately impoverished countries like Haiti, then someone from Chile can do the same.
You really don't know a thing about Chile, so why even try to pontificate?
... in the United States. Correct?
Other than what my sister-in-law and her family have told me over the past twenty years, no.
It's kind of you to invite young adult Chileans living at home to apply for student visas, come study in the United States, find jobs (which they're not legally allowed to have while being students) and live in apartments here. Sounds very feasible.
I think that part of this decline is due to the fact that so many "children" never move out of their parents' house, choosing instead to sponge off poor ol' (but enabling) ma and pa--and doing so well into their thirties. Adulthood never begins for these people.
That was the TV show Dallas
It wasn't uncommon for rural/farm families to do this -- but it was because the labor of the kids was needed to work the land. It was also common during the Depression even for city families -- but more often than not it was because Dad was out of work and the kids and Mom had to hold down menial jobs to keep the roof over the family's head. An awful lot of those multi-generation families had immigrant grandparents who spoke English poorly, if at all, and weren't well equipped to be on their own, and on the other end of the scale, kids who'd been required to drop out of school and go to work. Not quite the same scenario as today.