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And unchanged, many men are made to mummy's-boys, I think. I'm an only-child, but happily, I don't became that. I'm absolutely same distanced to mum and dad, living my own life.
Especially here, in East-Germany, the most middle-aged people have got still these "socialistic mind", very family-harmonic-orientated. BUT, the problem on education:
They still don't seem to comprehend, that their children have to live their own life, some day! And, that parents have to educate their children to autonomous adults.
And then, you see >40's, which got nothing handled in their life, sitting together with their >60's-parents in their allotment-garden. That's East-Germany, often.
Especially here, in East-Germany, the most middle-aged people have got still these "socialistic mind", very family-harmonic-orientated. BUT, the problem on education:
They still don't seem to comprehend, that their children have to live their own life, some day! And, that parents have to educate their children to autonomous adults.
And then, you see >40's, which got nothing handled in their life, sitting together with their >60's-parents in their allotment-garden. That's East-Germany, often.