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Part of the "problem" with the IJ hats is their size. In a largely hatless world, the attention they draw puts them outside the average person's comfort zone.
These days, enough people are wearing those cheap stingies that they don't seem so, well, odd. (I was at Target yesterday and saw those hats in two departments there -- in the men's department and in what we used to call "juniors.")
It's the old maxim: Wear your clothes, don't let your clothes wear you. Even here, where folks dig deeply into the minutiae of this or that "classic" style, we can think of folks who have all the details about as right as they can be, but for all their efforts, the effect they project is of a person trying just too darned hard. "Look at me," is what it says. And that's generally off-putting.
That's the trick, ain't it? Knowing the difference between a distinctive personal look and what comes across as affectation?
These days, enough people are wearing those cheap stingies that they don't seem so, well, odd. (I was at Target yesterday and saw those hats in two departments there -- in the men's department and in what we used to call "juniors.")
It's the old maxim: Wear your clothes, don't let your clothes wear you. Even here, where folks dig deeply into the minutiae of this or that "classic" style, we can think of folks who have all the details about as right as they can be, but for all their efforts, the effect they project is of a person trying just too darned hard. "Look at me," is what it says. And that's generally off-putting.
That's the trick, ain't it? Knowing the difference between a distinctive personal look and what comes across as affectation?
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