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Gents: Do you feel comfortable with a woman who is taller than you?

Do you feel comfortable being in a relationship with a woman who is taller than you?


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Yeah, everyone in her family is plus-sized. I know the whole family very well, which makes it all the more awkward that we split.

I never understand that myself, I see these beautiful women with bums. My best friend, he's got a good job, same as mine. But he's mean, short, heavy, looks like George Kostanza with a little more hair, never wants to go anywhere or do anything, and it just overall an angry little man. His girlfriend is a sweet, smart, pretty gal with a promising future after she gets out of college. I see stuff like this all the time, women with losers, no job, no future, and they're always jerks to top it off.

Not to mention all that food has dwindled her self esteem. But I know loads of beautiful women who have no self esteem and waste years with losers who are unemployed or work sporadically.
 

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Yeah, everyone in her family is plus-sized. I know the whole family very well, which makes it all the more awkward that we split.

I never understand that myself, I see these beautiful women with bums. My best friend, he's got a good job, same as mine. But he's mean, short, heavy, looks like George Kostanza with a little more hair, never wants to go anywhere or do anything, and it just overall an angry little man. His girlfriend is a sweet, smart, pretty gal with a promising future after she gets out of college. I see stuff like this all the time, women with losers, no job, no future, and they're always jerks to top it off.

That's because they have no self esteem and take "women's studies" courses in college which basically teach them to spurn men who work, take responsibility and have good hygiene. Then these girls wake up at 35 and alone and wonder "what happened? all that's available to me are; guys looking for the their 5th marriage, drunks and playboys wanting someone to support them". When a woman stays with a guy like that she does it because it makes her feel superior to him and also she thinks that she's the one who will change him. What they don't realize is that a jerk will always be a jerk.
 
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Sounds about right. Ironically, I always have girls tell me "You're the kinda guy I wanna marry someday, but not the guy I wanna date now." They're all looking for fun and wild times now and expect the nice, hardworking, clean-cut guy to just sit around and wait in the meantime. It's a shame really. These bums just take advantage.

That's because they have no self esteem and take "women's studies" courses in college which basically teach them to spurn men who work, take responsibility and have good hygiene. Then these girls wake up at 35 and alone and wonder "what happened? all that's available to me are; guys looking for the their 5th marriage, drunks and playboys wanting someone to support them". When a woman stays with a guy like that she does it because it makes her feel superior to him and also she thinks that she's the one who will change him. What they don't realize is that a jerk will always be a jerk.
 

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It's called a "polite" brush off. They are tormented between their urges and what they're "taught" (more like indoctrinated) in college. So they take the easy way out and follow what the colleges told them to do.
 
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I always kinda thought that too, but these are women that I am in no way interested in. Unless they are so conceited that they think I want them, which could very well be!

It's called a "polite" brush off. They are tormented between their urges and what they're "taught" (more like indoctrinated) in college. So they take the easy way out and follow what the colleges told them to do.
 

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I always kinda thought that too, but these are women that I am in no way interested in. Unless they are so conceited that they think I want them, which could very well be!

Well, you see, these women are taught that any man who works, takes responsibility and has good hygiene is a chauvanist, while some loser, who rarely works is "sensitive" and "thoughtful". These are the gals who always think "I'm in a 'relationship'" but fail to think out how it's relating.
 
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Yup, it's like you're Archie and they'd rather have Meathead lol

Well, you see, these women are taught that any man who works, takes responsibility and has good hygiene is a chauvanist, while some loser, who rarely works is "sensitive" and "thoughtful". These are the gals who always think "I'm in a 'relationship'" but fail to think out how it's relating.
 

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Yup, it's like you're Archie and they'd rather have Meathead lol

More like you're Dr. Kildare and they'd rather have Meathhead. bahahahhahahahaha

Remember, a girl that is happy with her boyfriend will always find a way to work him into the conversation when you first meet her. A girl who is unhappy, won't mention him, lead you on then when you make a move cry; "I've got a boyfriend".
 
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Option B happened to me with a girl I met at McDonald's a couple months ago. She came onto me, because I was so polite and had a nice smile as she told me. I talked to her a bit and spent some time with her and then she tells me that she has a boyfriend, which I didn't know, but not to worry, since she was breaking it off. A couple weeks went by, still no breakup and I just told her that she could keep him and take care. I ain't into games.

More like you're Dr. Kildare and they'd rather have Meathhead. bahahahhahahahaha

Remember, a girl that is happy with her boyfriend will always find a way to work him into the conversation when you first meet her. A girl who is unhappy, won't mention him, lead you on then when you make a move cry; "I've got a boyfriend".
 

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Option B happened to me with a girl I met at McDonald's a couple months ago. She came onto me, because I was so polite and had a nice smile as she told me. I talked to her a bit and spent some time with her and then she tells me that she has a boyfriend, which I didn't know, but not to worry, since she was breaking it off. A couple weeks went by, still no breakup and I just told her that she could keep him and take care. I ain't into games.
Good move. It's her lost not yours. By the way was she plump?
 
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Weight isn't a big deal to me. Thin girls are nice to look at, but you can add a few pounds to a lady if I get a few IQ points with it too. Smart women are sexy.
 
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Nah, it just turned me offa her. I never let one bad experience spoil all the possibilities. I do need to get out more and meet new women. One bad thing about small towns, same women, all the time. But someone told me there's a big 21st birthday party at the Old Chicago bar which is only 4 doors from my place. I may have to scope that out.

Well, maybe the sinful ex turned you off the Lane Bryant type.
 

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Nah, it just turned me offa her. I never let one bad experience spoil all the possibilities. I do need to get out more and meet new women. One bad thing about small towns, same women, all the time. But someone told me there's a big 21st birthday party at the Old Chicago bar which is only 4 doors from my place. I may have to scope that out.

Go shave and shower and get down there. There may be some out of town babes.
 

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