Just wanted to double back on this as it all worked out. After getting the jacket I immediately reached out to both the seller and grailed administration with my concerns. Grailed requested that the seller and I reconcile the issue before they get involved. After sending pics and explaining why I felt I deserved a refund the seller was actually super understanding. I sent the jacket back to a address in the US that they provided and the money just hit my account today. I was actually pretty impressed it all worked out so smoothly. Moving forward, with future purchases, I will insist on tape measure pics regardless of if the jacket is stock, regardless of size, and essentially no matter what. and will always ask if the jacket has been altered just in case.