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swinggal said:I think that men love to see a feminine woman, because they rarely SEE this anymore. As well as being a vintage fan, i am also a swing dancer so I wear seamed stockings and tap pants under my a-line skirts when I dance. I'm always amazed at the dropped jaws I get from non-dancing men who get to see the tops of my stockings in a spin. And yet I'm fully clothed from head to toe - unlike half the women around me. A glimpse it seems, is so much more alluring.
It's funny to see the reaction of men to shapely, classic clothing, feminine makeup (more the red lips than anything) and seamed stockings! I truly believe it's because men don't see their girlfriends or women in general dressed in really feminine attire anymore. It's a novelty to them but to other women...they seem to get upset that you can look sexy without being baring all. So many girls these days go out clubbing wearing barely anything at yet the men are staring at women like us.
This is so true! Today I am wearing a very plain 1940s style dress and a head scarf (to cover up my pincurls for later) and I had very plain makeup and of course lipstick on, and the man at the Chick-fil-a counter told me he loved the 'retro' look and gave me free lemonade! This was quite flattering considering there are scads of scantily clad freshmen running around barely dressed and there I was in a plain dress that went down to my knees.