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There is nothing at all hypocritical in advising against hitchhiking and riding in the backs of pickup trucks and drinking alcohol to the point of undeniable intoxication and any number of other potentially dangerous things I did myself and really don't regret. (There's another list of things I do indeed regret, but that's a whole 'nother matter.)
Well, if you're a parent, you need to be a hypocrite to an extent to raise your kids to think critically and sensibly.
Sure, it's sometimes painful as all those things brought me joy, but when my son wanted to get a motorcycle, I did everything in my power to get him into a car. For all the same reasons I've all but given it up here in the city, I didn't want him on one.
Kills me - I've been riding over 40 years. But sometimes that pleasure spot needs to be squashed.