I’d like any theories as to the status of my jacket I “sold” him as well. Is there a creative way he could have made it appear the jacket is still en route without being delivered yet delivered? Idk, it seemed to me like a genuine postal loss in my case. Perhaps he has some really crappy post office there, hence the paranoia on his end? The vibe I got during my interaction was that he was trying very hard to not have the box opened by postal officials, and I attributed this to the likelihood of theft on their end.
Another explanation could be the transfer from one parcel shipping company to another. If I use a local carrier to send something across the pond, they'll hand it over to USPS for them to take care of delivery within the US. Sometimes with the handover they also re-label the package giving it a new (USPS) tracking code. If you then check tracking with the local (non-US) carrier, status will forever be 'in transit'.I have had at least 5 jackets that i bought, had delivered and signed for, yet the tracking was never updated and remained stuck on "on it's way to destination" forever.
Had i been a scammer i could have filed a complaint and gotten my money back even though i signed for the jacket myself.
It seems this problem with trackings not updating has happened more since the begining of Covid, i think it's because delivery drivers are told not to ask for signatures anymore.
Maarten had help from interested parties and got his money back.