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...I think what we've been talking about here is something entirely different, though. Ariel Levy writes about "internalizing the objectifying male gaze," which basically means a woman defining herself and her own sense of sexuality according to what male culture tells her she's supposed to do. She ceases to see herself thru her own eyes, and instead sees herself thru "the male gaze." That's what's meant by self-objectification, and it seems to me that would be the very opposite of any kind of actual empowerment -- no matter how you slice it, it's letting someone else define an intimate part of your identity. I don't say that everyone who's interested in the pinup look does this -- but I don't doubt for a minute there are quite a few who do, and without even realizing it...
Bless you Lizzie; this is what I've been trying to articulate without as much grace.