The Single & Ridiculously Good-Lookin' Room

[Maj.Nick Danger]

Well someday I'd like a house with a yard and I fear I'll never get there alone. :cry:

Focus on what it is you want,and how that makes you feel, ...not the alternatives. We make our own luck.
Better living through Quantum Physics.

 

[Diamondback]

Oh well there goes my special feeling!

Hey, you got first crack at it--that should be worth something!lol

OTOH, it strikes me that the question's kinda fixed: who's gonna seriously admit to placing appearance or financials first?

Of course, I technically shouldn't even be in this thread due to "appearance issues", but since I'm here anyway...lol

 

[Maj.Nick Danger]

Hey, you got first crack at it--that should be worth something!lol

OTOH, it strikes me that the question's kinda fixed: who's gonna seriously admit to placing appearance or financials first?

Only the truly superficial? Superficial types are maybe only concerned with appearances and the temporal.
Appearance and finance don't last, heart does.

 

[pretty faythe]

Just for the heck of it, four qualifications folks look for in a sweetie:

Brains (intelligence)
Heart (love, deep emotional commitment)
Muscles (self-explanatory, but we'll say it includes all the superficial stuff)
Wallet (the mercenary stuff: cash, trust-funds, financial instruments)

Which are the most important? Pick two, any two that you consider the biggest "must-haves".

Humm deee dumm...letsss sseee.....mmmmm......Have to have brains...I just can't go for people that I have to break down the meaning of all the words that I use. Umm....can't say I go for muscle......my history of boyfriends have gone from one end of the sprectrum to the other....so it would have to be heart. I don't want some one who couldn't care less about me, been there done that. While I may have had fun, the committment and bond was sadly lacking.

 

[ferryengr]

Humm deee dumm...letsss sseee.....mmmmm......Have to have brains...I just can't go for people that I have to break down the meaning of all the words that I use. Umm....can't say I go for muscle......my history of boyfriends have gone from one end of the sprectrum to the other....so it would have to be heart. I don't want some one who couldn't care less about me, been there done that. While I may have had fun, the committment and bond was sadly lacking.

For myself, girlfriends won't last long unless they are OK with me being the leader. I just do not have the constitution to be a follower or to be submissive. This does not mean I won't respect a woman. Just that I gotta be the one that "wears the pants". I still would always be loving and caring. My internal makeup works for some women and not others. But it is who I am . . .

 

[Emmababy]

Am I allowed to join the party?

 

[Pink Dahlia]

For myself, girlfriends won't last long unless they are OK with me being the leader. I just do not have the constitution to be a follower or to be submissive. This does not mean I won't respect a woman. Just that I gotta be the one that "wears the pants". I still would always be loving and caring. My internal makeup works for some women and not others. But it is who I am . . .

By "wearing the pants" does that mean buying me stuff too?

 

[ferryengr]

A man 's got to take care of his lady Pink

 

[LolitaHaze]

I have taught you well, Young Jedi.

By "wearing the pants" does that mean buying me stuff too?

 

[ferryengr]

I have taught you well, Young Jedi.

lol lol lol

 

[Pink Dahlia]

I have taught you well, Young Jedi.

lol lol lol lol lol

Thank you, Master.

 

[skwerl-hat]

i place all my emphasis on weather the gal compliments my hat. Insult or ignore me but give the love to the hat!:eusa_clap

 

[pretty faythe]

WEll thats a mighty fine skull cap ya got on there. lol

 

[Diamondback]

Am I allowed to join the party?

Hey, if they'll suffer my ridiculously NOT-Good-Lookin' carcass, I can't see any reason at all why you'd have even the slightest pang of doubt...

 

[Jovan]

Not as ridiculously good looking as the gentleman in my avatar, but single for sure.

 

[Lincsong]

Am I allowed to join the party?

Please step inside lovely lady.

 

[skwerl-hat]

actually its a beanie! *
Not as ridiculously good looking as the gentleman in my avatar, but single for sure.


nor mine! :-D

 

[Brooksie]

actually its a beanie! *
Not as ridiculously good looking as the gentleman in my avatar, but single for sure.


nor mine! :-D

skwerl-hat, are you wearing Charles Bukowski's Beanie or is he wearing your's???

Brooksie

 

[skwerl-hat]

brooksie i havent quite figured that out yet!
depends on what hour of the night it is :-D

 

[Daisy Buchanan]

Oh well there goes my special feeling!

To add as far as muscles go, my beau (whomever that lucky gent ends up being) doesn't have to be the best looking bloke in the wide world but I have to be physically attracted to him. I personally cannot form an intimate relationship with someone I am not attracted to.

This is true, but take my advice, someday you might meet a man and not be that physically attracted to him. But, you get to know him as a friend. You hang out, grow closer, and before you know it what you thought was just an average looking guy becomes the most beautiful man to you. This is what happened with me and the man I was engaged to. We talked on the phone and went out a couple of times as friends. He wanted more at the time, I didn't. But I decided to go on a date. I really thought that it was just to appease him and at the end of it he wouldn't want to date me any more. But one date turned into many dates over about a 5 month period. One day I realized I was in love with him, I didn't want to be without him and I didn't want to be with anybody else. He felt the same way luckily. So this man that I thought I would never be physically attracted to became the most beautiful man in the world to me. A great personality and a kind, caring and generous heart can make one physically attracted to someone, even if that physical attraction isn't there from the get go.