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My grandmother lived through the Depression. In 1929, she would've been 15. Gran never told me anything about the Depression. She told me a lot about the War that followed. The Japanese invasion (she would've been in her mid/late 20s when that happened), and the food-shortages, the fighting, the bombing, the lack of electrical power. But of the Depression, almost nothing.
My grandparents never spoke about the depression either. The only things I know about are things that my parents told me "slipped out" in conversation with others, came up in fights, or other family members told them about their parents. I think they were from the generation where you didn't talk about things that were hurtful or dwell on those types of things. They did talk about the war and everything else, but nothing about the depression.
My mother told me once the only way to get my grandmother to talk about her experiences in the depression was to get her really mad at my great-grandmother and give my grandmother a bit too much whiskey. Then my grandmother would talk about what happened when she was a child. I know my grandmother was extremely ashamed of her experiences in the depression and what she and the family did to get by (probably more so than most). But honestly, none of my grandparents spoke freely about it or would answer any questions about it. I highly doubt my grandmother would have ever said "we were poor and everybody else was so we didn't know it" because she felt they were poorer than everybody else- essentially the destitute among the poor.