Marc Chevalier
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"That being said." In almost every case, it should be stated as "That having been said," or "That said."
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scottyrocks said:'Irregardless' is a bit off, like 'I could care less.' The word is 'regardless,' and if you could care less, then you care, so why bother stating it in the context you mean to convey? It's, 'I couldnt care less.' IOW, you dont care at all.
St.Ignatz said:Sorry Scotty, I'll be a little more obvious with my sarcasm next time.
It's regional but, ayTalbot said:When I was growing up in the 70's, it was not uncommon for some people to end nearly every sentence with 'but'.
Going to the footy but?
Lets go to dinner but
It might have been a regional thing but.
Used to drive me crazy but.
reetpleat said:On the other hand, I don't know what "The hell, you say." means, but I like it.
dr greg said:It's regional but, ay
lolly_loisides said:I reckon (please add upward inflection)?
St.Ignatz said:Sorry Scotty, I'll be a little more obvious with my sarcasm next time.
Mike in Seattle said:I think it's just a contracted, "shorthand" version of "What the hell did you say?"
Dixon Cannon said:Since our language is being reduced to a literal tower of Babel, I asked the supervisor at work if we could open an Esperanto desk!? Why not?...I can't understand half of the people the call in anyway!
Here is a great quote: Vocal communication is more than just making noises with your mouth - it's supposed to be about articulating sounds that form words expressing meaning in a context of verbalized thoughts, concepts and ideas. Anything else is gibberish and babel, not language.
-dixon cannon
Lincsong said:When a guy asks a girl out why does she have to give the standard; "oh I've been so busy with work, I can't now, maybe next time"?? Just give us an honest "NO" and be over with it???[huh]
Tomasso said:I was watching a congressional hearing regarding the condition of the credit markets when one of the financial wizards testifying before the committee stated that,"We are in unchartered waters." :eusa_doh:
Yeah! Just like Fay Wray!Viola said:Paisley, next time the honest yet vintage thing to do is raise your hands in front of your face and let out a Golden Movie era heroine scream from the horror movies. Best if you are a soprano, though.
dr greg said:It's regional but, ay
Lady Day said:I have always hated when people say "I'm sorry" after bumping into me. No you're not, just say excuse me. If I bumped into someone Im not sorry I did it, I reply with an "excuse me" as in excuse the fact I bumped into you. Often you cant help it, so you cant regret it, and regret would constitute a sorry. But, if you are walking on a crowded street, and someone bumps you on the arm, an excuse me would suffice.
I just think I'm sorry has lost all meaning today, and I feel bad about that. I always took I'm sorry to mean that the person who says it takes deep personal regret in whatever effect their action brought; pain, inconvenience and or any other negative outcome to the other person. You didnt say it lightly, and the person you said it to didnt forgive you lightly.
Now it seems to be an entitlement phrase. "I said I'm sorry, you should automatically forgive me."
I bring this up because today, I went to the bank. I was expecting a replacement debit card that should have been delivered last week. It was not there, and the woman I dealt with said a cold mechanical, "I'm sorry" about three times. I realized, she wasnt saying I'm sorry, she was saying no.
"I'm sorry, there isnt anything I can do right now."
"No, there isnt anything I can do right now."
I made me realize that many retailers say "I'm sorry" often as guise for "no, I cant/wont help you" and Im just realizing it.
Where have I been.
"I'm sorry" has also been taken as a phrase for laziness.
"Yeah, I just closed it, Im sorry."
Well, open it back up again. If it was JUST closed...
Has anyone else been irritated by the phrase "I'm Sorry"?
How were you raised to think on those words?
How were your grandparents raised to think of them?
Is it just me, or is this a new phenomenon? Because if its new, Im already ticked off.
LD