moonmatrix, I feel for you! Back when my second child was an infant, I had a very restricted diet because he was allergic to various foods that passed through the breastmilk. That was when I started hosting Thanksgiving at my house. Everyone offered to bring a dish, but I insisted on making everything so I knew that everything would be safe. To this day, my Thanksgiving is dairy, soy and egg-free and I strive to accomodate any of my guests' dietary needs. I hope your Thanksgiving is a relaxed and SAFE one and that you don't get sick!