Bettafett, if all that you've said is an honest and complete account of events - and I take you at your word - then at this point, as I see it, you don't owe these cowboys and their reputation any more gentlemanly conduct. What's more, I'd say that frankly such considerations are misplaced as evidently this road isn't helping to bring you and your cash any closer. You have tried to sort this out privately and respectfully, have waited longer than anyone should ever be expected to, and the thanks you have received for your patience and restraint is what exactly? With that response this guy has essentially spat in your eyes, apparently more than once. And now you have the fun of a PP dispute to look forward to. For me, in circumstances like these I'd say the ship of cordiality has sailed and that now is the time to think about returning the favour i.e. the maximum amount of inconvenience you can inflict. If it was me, and I'm just saying, I'd bear in mind that this is the information age, that the WWW is a big place, and that there are a lots and lots of forums out there. If you ask me, naming him should be just the first step, with several more to follow