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As someone who wasn't really around when Diana was alive, I don't understand the comparisons. She's her own person - who never knew Diana - and I'm sure W&K hate it.
Personally, the comparisons make me uncomfortable, and I can't imagine it is comfortable for this couple. Diana and Charles had a rocky marriage and a very public divorce, and I personally wouldn't want my marriage or wedding compared to that. (There were plenty of comparisons at least here on the US press.) The fact that Diana died young and tragically, leaving two children behind- one of whom is the subject of comparison- also seems unsettling.
Most of the comparisons are meant to be flattering, but I still wouldn't want to constantly be reminded through comparison. As the bride, I could imagine it would be quite intimidating too, to constantly be compared to your husband's mother who has passed on. It's a high bar to try to pass: to be as good as someone who died young, and has had her memory and good deeds constantly mentioned (with the more negative things glossed over, due to a tragic death).
I don't mind the stylistic comparisons that much- just when they start to get to the relationship, personality, or image stuff that seems.... off.