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Here's part of an article I found at the website dickstaub.com, I found it enlightening.
"It is easier to demonize someone if you don?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢t actually meet and converse with them. A few years ago Deborah Tannen wrote ?¢‚Ǩ?ìThe Argument Culture?¢‚Ǩ? in which she documented the loss of civility, reason and intent of American debate, attributable largely to the electronic media. We no longer seek dialogue towards a more reasonable conclusion; we argue from extremes, posturing & exaggerating instead of seeking the best resolution to a societal problem. Constructive dialogue requires good will, willingness to compromise, and the belief that there is a good and true outcome to be achieved. It also grows out of relationship.
Whether the environment or any other issue, better solutions will emerge when people of good will meet, converse, and then encumbered only by the desire for the good, the true and the beautiful, reach the best available conclusion.
The institutional inability to operate in this manner, exemplified by government and the media, is symptomatic of the erosion of individual skills and will. Unless something changes radically we may reach the place where ?¢‚Ǩ?ìall the king?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢s horses and all the king?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢s men, can?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢t put civilization together again.?¢‚Ǩ? That evangelicals and other religious factions are part of the problem serves only to hasten the shattering of this union."
"It is easier to demonize someone if you don?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢t actually meet and converse with them. A few years ago Deborah Tannen wrote ?¢‚Ǩ?ìThe Argument Culture?¢‚Ǩ? in which she documented the loss of civility, reason and intent of American debate, attributable largely to the electronic media. We no longer seek dialogue towards a more reasonable conclusion; we argue from extremes, posturing & exaggerating instead of seeking the best resolution to a societal problem. Constructive dialogue requires good will, willingness to compromise, and the belief that there is a good and true outcome to be achieved. It also grows out of relationship.
Whether the environment or any other issue, better solutions will emerge when people of good will meet, converse, and then encumbered only by the desire for the good, the true and the beautiful, reach the best available conclusion.
The institutional inability to operate in this manner, exemplified by government and the media, is symptomatic of the erosion of individual skills and will. Unless something changes radically we may reach the place where ?¢‚Ǩ?ìall the king?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢s horses and all the king?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢s men, can?¢‚Ǩ‚Ñ¢t put civilization together again.?¢‚Ǩ? That evangelicals and other religious factions are part of the problem serves only to hasten the shattering of this union."