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I got my opera pumps yesterday:
Very nice - such a major size difference from your regular shoe. I'm glad they were patient about remaking them. A great addition to your wardrobe.
I got my opera pumps yesterday:
Morning suit or morning coat? The former is all the same grey whilst the latter is black coat, striped trousers and coloured waistcoat.
Yes, I agree with the topper, etc. One should not upstage the groom.
Buff is sort of beige. The exact tone varies from light brown to almost pastel yellow. As long as it is pastel in tone it is okay.
The cane really can be anything elegant and simple but traditionally it is malacca or ebony with a silver or gold top and straight. A dress cane does not have a crook (that would make it a walking stick as the crook is there to assist with the walking) IMHO but anyhow, it is one's choice.
The waistcoat does, I hasten to add, have the sort of buttons I would expect to find on a morning dress waistcoat (half domey sort of coloured clear plastic stuff), and is made of doeskin. The lower pockets (it has four) have flaps. These features make me think it is a morning waistcoat - but if I have picked up the wrong thing in a fit of daltonism, please let me know!
Sounds like some sort of country waistcoat to me (doeskin and flapped pockets are very common on country waistcoats). I have the same sort of thing in burgundy. Much as I like these sort of waistcoats they are a little bit informal for morning dress in my opinion. As the colour on yours appears to be correct it may be excusable though.
It is darker than buff. Buff is something like that:
Your waistcoat looks like biscuit to me.
By the way, are not shoe soles a bit too thick for morning dress?
Best regards, Dr
Right, here we go. Couple of things: I've not had to opportunity to have it pressed and dry cleaned, hence ignore creases etc. I also know the trousers are too long and will have them sorted. The second to bottom (or bottom-most fastening) button is missing. I have the button and will sew it on in time. The shirt is just a white shirt I threw on - for the wedding it'll be a detachable collar. Ignore wild hair, lack of recent shave, and scuffed shoes - none of these will be the case when worn for an occaision
I have a few questions before I embark on a vintage dinner jacket buying rampage:
1 I have a nice set of black braces, can or should I wear these with the DJ? I'll probably be wearing a waistcoat, so I imagine not. Honestly I'm not even sure why my pants have buttons for braces...
2 My DJ has grosgrain lapels, would wearing a black waistcoat with satin revers be unacceptable? If not I could get a self-faced white waistcoat, although I'm not sure I'll like that look.
3 I'm considering a red cummerbund if the waistcoat doesn't pan out. Is that kosher with a black DJ? I do live in Florida, so its plenty hot.
Thanks for the help I'm sure to receive
I have a few questions before I embark on a vintage dinner jacket buying rampage:
1 I have a nice set of black braces, can or should I wear these with the DJ? I'll probably be wearing a waistcoat, so I imagine not. Honestly I'm not even sure why my pants have buttons for braces...
2 My DJ has grosgrain lapels, would wearing a black waistcoat with satin revers be unacceptable? If not I could get a self-faced white waistcoat, although I'm not sure I'll like that look.
3 I'm considering a red cummerbund if the waistcoat doesn't pan out. Is that kosher with a black DJ? I do live in Florida, so its plenty hot.
Thanks for the help I'm sure to receive
3. No, must always be black (or midnight blue if DJ is in that colour, etc).
The Handbook of English Costume of the Nineteenth Century contains an 1889 period description of the original cummerbund as a crimson or black silk "sash" wrapped around the waist four times.
Looks good though I would say the sleeves might need shortening.
The waistcoat is fine to have flap but as AEdwards have said, the flap pockets are a country feature. Nevertheless, still acceptable.
I'd dispute that (especially in America, where our UK rules don't always apply and that needs to be taken into account). There are plenty of examples on the black tie guide (and this forum). And as the black tie guide quotes:
Right from the start crimson has been there, and it's always been acceptable, if uncommon, and again, especially in the US.
I think it's more that my arms need lengthening...
I do prefer a longer sleeve, but I shall probably get them shortened after the wedding (I don't have time before hand to guarantee it would be done in time). I may look for another waistcoat afterwards - probably a grey (if I can find one, DB) one for winter clambakes (I appreciate there is no rule on this - apart from a grey coat being inappropriate for anything other then summer - but I think a nice touch). The country feature of the pocket flaps may work well, considering that the wedding is in rural Kent
I don't very much care for the red cummerbund look to be fair...