Essentials of a 40's Party

[Stanley Doble]

Let Bing Crosby and Jane Wyman explain how to throw a party (in the cool cool cool of the evening)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puSgWX4DbZ4

 

[newsman]

Something else to consider are old cook books.

I managed to get a copy of the 1943 edition of The Joy of Home Cooking for about $20 on Ebay...and it's in reasonable shape.

We are planning to use this book when we do our 40s party.

 

[Mr. Godfrey]

I will check out that link. Thank you.

No need to black out windows, there are not any. Though, they are thinking about having an "air raid" sometime during the evening.

Make false windows, out of black paper with tape over to give the impression of blacked out windows.

 

[DecoDame]

I'm quite literally too late to the party, but would love to experience "a do" like this. You're lucky to have near-by friends or relations that can appreciate it.

As an aside, we grew up with Ranch house, TV dinners and paper napkins (oh my) as the norm. I didn't start using a cloth napkin until my 30s, never gave it a thought before, but now can't go back. Paper napkins seem one step away from using my sleeve now (mostly kidding). And wasteful.

 

[St. Louis]

DecoDame, if Missouri isn't too long a drive for you, I'm having my annual 1939 party again this year and you'd be most welcome. I do it every year in the early spring (date hasn't been finalized) and encourage, but certainly don't require, 1930s-1940s dress. Food, drinks, and music are all as period-correct as I can manage. I'm lucky to live in St. Louis, where beer was an acceptable party drink in the post-Prohibition 1930s (and probably during, as well!)

 

[scottyrocks]

Maybe you could put out a tin of Charles Chips. They hail from the early '40s, and the cans still retain that vintage look.

 

[DecoDame]

St. Louis, I thank you for the invitation and I am sorely and seriously tempted to take you up on it and drag the partner along to boot - even though I hate road trips these days like a cat hates baths. lol But come spring, the blood may be thawed out enough for me to get adventurous again. So please keep me/us posted! I really would like to experience that once before I kick it!

 

[GHT]

DecoDame, if Missouri isn't too long a drive for you, I'm having my annual 1939 party again this year and you'd be most welcome. I do it every year in the early spring (date hasn't been finalized) and encourage, but certainly don't require, 1930s-1940s dress.

What a shame you are on the other side of the pond. Jessica, parked in your driveway would have made the perfect accoutrement to your party. Not to sure about that driver of her's though!

 

[Dennis Young]

I’m late to this, but I thought this link was a decent one and might help:

http://www.easy-party-ideas-and-games.com/40-s-party.html


1. Play the right music to set the mood. The easiest way to remind someone of the 1940s is with the music of the era. This was the height of the big band era, and great staples of that sound like Count Basie and His Orchestra and Benny Goodman are easy to find on CD. Put together a play list of popular songs from the era, and mix in some lesser-known tunes from that decade, as well. This will keep the conversation going about the music, but still provide people with recognizable songs that they can dance to. Include some slow songs, too. Perry Como made his living crooning ballads like "Till the End of Time," and they make a great break in the swing dance action, or a great chance to grab someone and slow dance.


2 . Encourage guests to dress the part. In the invitation, let people know that you will be dressing as though it were the mid-1940s, and that everyone else should join in as well. Feel free to include simple suggestions to get people's imaginations going. If you are a man, a great place to start is with a suit. Dress was much more formal in the '40s, and it wasn't uncommon to wear a suit both to the office and to a cocktail party after work. Double-breasted suits were the most popular. Pull out the hair product and slick that hair back, as well, parting it on the side. For women, a pencil cut skirt and long sleeve blouse with heels is perfect, accented by stockings with a seam up the back. Put your hair in an updo and use bright, slightly exaggerated make up.


3 Throw a swing dance contest. Let your guests know that they need to practice their swing dance moves, and plan a swing dance contest for the evening. Even if you aren't inviting a group of professional dancers, putting on a contest where your guests have the chance to express themselves in this way is fun for everyone. Even the shy wallflowers can't help but get into the spirit of the decade once they hear the opening bars to "In the Mood." Give every couple a number, and have the contest go through several stages, having the last two couples perform a dance off for the rest of the party guests. The winners can receive a modest prize.


4 Decorate as though it were 1945. This can be as elaborate or as subtle as you like. The real fun is in perfecting the details. Go to a copy shop with a local paper and doctor up a copy to look like a headline from the end of World War II. The headlines can vary, as well. Find pictures of stars from the era and doctor up a couple magazines to look like vintage copies of "Life" or "Time" from the 1940s. Go to a thrift store and peruse the house wares section. Bring photos of living rooms and kitchens from the 1940s with you to find items that may fit. If you find a lamp shade that looks authentic, get it and put it on a lamp you already own, just for the night. If you find an appliance that looks authentic, pick it up and use it, just for decoration. Remember that it doesn't have to work. It's just for set dressing.


5 Serve the cocktails that made the decade famous. The cocktails that best defined the '40s were the Martini and the Manhattan. They were made slightly different than they are now, so make them in the authentic way. For the martini, make it with 2 parts gin and 1 part vermouth with 3 olives, chilled and strained into a martini glass. For the Manhattan, use 2 parts bourbon, 1 part vermouth and a splash of bitters

 

[filfoster]

ratiion cards and stamps.

 

[Ryan Veasman]

I am REALLY late to the party, but St. Louis, I am a fellow Missourian. I have a ton of friends in the STL area that would be thoroughly interested in such an event. Not sure when or where, but color me interested.

 

[Tiki Tom]

Some years back we had a wartime/Casablanca party. I learned how to tie a proper bow tie for that party. Most of the guys dressed like Rick. Some wore fez’s. Dames dressed real classy. We had a roulette table and played 40s music. Put up a few period posters. Talk was of resistance. The evening was a success and we all said “let’s do it again sometime” but we never did.

My other memory was that I was taking private German lessons at the time with a nice German lady. Not thinking twice about it, I told her about the party. She was horrified and I had to backpedal a bit!

 

[Jon Crow]

Some years back we had a wartime/Casablanca party. I learned how to tie a proper bow tie for that party. Most of the guys dressed like Rick. Some wore fez’s. Dames dressed real classy. We had a roulette table and played 40s music. Put up a few period posters. Talk was of resistance. The evening was a success and we all said “let’s do it again sometime” but we never did.

My other memory was that I was taking private German lessons at the time with a nice German lady. Not thinking twice about it, I told her about the party. She was horrified and I had to backpedal a bit!

Nice Tom, we had our honeymoon in Casablanca, they have a real Rick's Cafe there, we both like the movie, but that night in Rick's Cafe was very nostalgic then coming out in the warm Moroccan night under palm trees, we also went to Anfa where they had the wartime conference and yes they had a piano player looking like Sam playing

 

[Jon Crow]

Some years back we had a wartime/Casablanca party. I learned how to tie a proper bow tie for that party. Most of the guys dressed like Rick. Some wore fez’s. Dames dressed real classy. We had a roulette table and played 40s music. Put up a few period posters. Talk was of resistance. The evening was a success and we all said “let’s do it again sometime” but we never did.

My other memory was that I was taking private German lessons at the time with a nice German lady. Not thinking twice about it, I told her about the party. She was horrified and I had to backpedal a bit!

https://www.rickscafe.ma/