Miss 1929
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At least give them their own first name!
In our family, everyone got a unique name, as it is considered bad luck in Jewish culture to name a child after someone who is living.
But, in my husbands' family, everyone has the same names.
In the immediate circle of first cousins, there are 4 Jose's, 4 Raul's, and 5 Maria Theresa's!
And all the MTs go by the same nickname, Teri!
It is so very confusing.
This is why in Latin countries, they use both the father's name and mother's name together as last names, or, if a married woman, your maiden name followed by the husband's father's name (like mine - the "de" means "married to").
So I am always asking things like, "do you mean Teri Aguilar Fernandez or Teri Fernandez Aguilar?"
And I still have no idea how I am related to all these people, I seriously need a family tree.
In our family, everyone got a unique name, as it is considered bad luck in Jewish culture to name a child after someone who is living.
But, in my husbands' family, everyone has the same names.
In the immediate circle of first cousins, there are 4 Jose's, 4 Raul's, and 5 Maria Theresa's!
And all the MTs go by the same nickname, Teri!
It is so very confusing.
This is why in Latin countries, they use both the father's name and mother's name together as last names, or, if a married woman, your maiden name followed by the husband's father's name (like mine - the "de" means "married to").
So I am always asking things like, "do you mean Teri Aguilar Fernandez or Teri Fernandez Aguilar?"
And I still have no idea how I am related to all these people, I seriously need a family tree.