John the Swede
Familiar Face
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I figure if the establishment doesn’t offer a place to securely leave my hat it is implied that they must want me to wear it indoors. The problem, for me, is finding the balance between good manners and outdated rules of etiquette. I do believe in having good manners, but since so few people wear hats the rules for them are really nebulous except for a few circumstances (e.g., funerals, National Anthems, entering another’s home, etc.). Doffing and tipping one’s hat often comes across as pretentious or even bizarre. We don’t live in the Golden Era and not all of the rules of etiquette from 1930 translate well into 2018.
Ditto on these observations.