Scott Wood
Practically Family
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ScionPI2005 said:Hi David, and welcome to the Lounge!
Interesting dilemma that you bring up.
It sounds like she's just trying to give you a hard time. You already said she disapproved of a 20-year-old wearing a hat. I don't have any ideas right now as to what exactly you should say, but don't stop putting the hat on as you are leaving. Just be polite to her, yet assertive in your decision.
I will probably read on and find that I am repeating something that someone else has said...
It seems to me as well that this woman is being very nit-picky but as her husband is your boss she actually may exert a great deal of influence over your work situation. I think I would recognize that she is likely more than half wrong but keep it to myself and then do as she asks.
Look at this as taking the high road and one of those occasions when you may gain by giving in and may very well lose by being "right".
Just my 2 cents (free advice being worth every penny )
Scooter